I'm grateful to Much Loved for reminding me - 9 years since your passing of your love, wonderful spirit and hospitality to all. Knowing that you had such special gifts with older people with dementia at Clay Cross Hall is particularly poignant to me now... I have a sense that you're walking with me through the needs for wisdom, kindness and realism. Pragmatic until the end, I honour you for your own wisdom in choosing the time to be cared for and to release. You are a much beloved Grandma xx